What's Going on with Me?

This would be me.

But here we are, halfway through January, and not a single item has been crossed off my list.

Here’s what I had planned:

• Clean up the house, including the overly packed basement.
• Do a deep purge of every closet, especially my overflowing dressing room.
• Organize recipes and photos.
• Write and blog more.
• Cook healthy meals.
• Finish decorating my space.
• Work out more—and push myself harder.

I know it sounds like a lot, but by now, I feel like I should have checked off at least one item.

But instead, I find myself stuck in inertia. I run around in circles and accomplish nothing. 

Why is it so hard to get started? Why can’t I build the momentum I so badly want? The drive is there—but where’s the follow-through?

Sound familiar? Sometimes, no matter how many goals we set, we find ourselves frozen in place, staring at the list rather than crossing anything off. If you're feeling the same way, you're not alone. It’s a struggle we all face at times.

So, what can we do about it? I’ve been reflecting on a few strategies that might help break the cycle:

1. Break It Down

Instead of focusing on the long list, I’m taking one small step at a time. For example, today I’m tackling one dresser drawer—just one. I know that once I start, I’ll feel the momentum to keep going.

2. Use the 5-Minute Rule

I’m committing to working on a task for just five minutes. The hardest part is often starting, and once I’m in motion, I can keep going.

3. Prioritize Micro Goals

Instead of feeling overwhelmed by the big picture, I’m setting micro goals. Rather than saying "clean the basement," I’ll say, "Organize the shelf in the basement." Small, achievable tasks that can get me feeling productive!

4. Create a Routine

One of the keys to overcoming inertia is creating a daily routine. I’m going to set aside a specific time each day, even if it’s just for 20 minutes, to focus on one thing—whether it’s writing or organizing a closet. It’s all about consistency. And by the way, I'm going to plug this into my calendar!

5. Accountability Partner

I hope to entice a friend to be my accountability partner and I can do the same for her.  This way we can share our goals and check in with each other. Sometimes knowing that someone else is aware of your progress can make all the difference.

6. Celebrate Small Wins

I’ll be celebrating the small victories along the way—whether it's clearing off a counter or finishing a single blog post. Recognizing progress, no matter how minor, can give me the motivation to keep going.

I know that this year is still young, and even though I haven’t checked off everything just yet, I’m giving myself grace. Tackling one thing at a time is all part of the process. I’m focused on moving forward, not perfection.

If you're also feeling stuck, remember: It’s okay to start small. It’s okay to take breaks. What matters is making consistent progress, even if it’s just a tiny step at a time. 

Life is short. Don't sweat the small stuff. Now if I can only practice what I preach!

Happy New Year!

xx Susan